We can’t afford not to be dense.
Girls often accuse guys of being dense. That we don’t see the signs, don’t get the message. We are here to tell womankind that we men wish we didn’t have to be dense. But we do.
See, if guys were as transparent as girls and let that show, we’d be in all kinds of trouble. If I thought someone was “into me” every time she smiled at me, we’d be disappointed later when we found out the truth. If the signs were more serious, we might get rather hurt further down the line when things fall apart. So, we purposely don’t let ourselves get too wrapped up in the subtle signs, even when we want to believe they’re true. We wait to make sure it’s all real before we let it get to us, because if it’s not, it won’t be fun later on. The point is, guys are dense on purpose, so that every little thing doesn’t bother us to an extreme. In short…
We can’t afford not to be dense.
Girls, keep this in mind next time you think guys are stupid and dense!
- Andrew
